Club Sports: What's a Family to Do?

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Club teams are big business, which means huge monetary incentives, clouding the motives of almost everyone involved. Long gone are the days of our kids playing sports determined simply by the changing seasons. It used to be like clockwork. The dog days of summer were dedicated to bat and ball sports. Autumn automatically meant football for the guys and possibly volleyball for the gals. And of course, winter caused us all to seek indoor shelter and warmth by playing basketball. Today many high school coaches demand their players participate offseason if not year round. Guess who the club coach is? (answer: often the same high school coach requiring participation). No conflict of interest here folks move on

Parents too see travel teams as a way to train teens, and younger players, to achieve the ultimate goal: athletic scholarships. Considering the astronomical costs of clubs, financial planners estimate that making regular contributions to an educational 403b fund is more effective for paying college tuition. Sometimes parents long for the next generation to excel beyond high school to erase the failure they experienced and seemingly seared into their minds. You can spot them a mile away. They're the coaches of little league, AYSO, and peewee football teams. Their offspring are the all-stars whether the physical prowess exists in them or not; it usually does. When your kid asks you why they can't be quarterback or pitcher, good luck with that conversation.

"Say it ain't it so coach Joe." There is a sunny side to club sports because most kids love playing on organized teams to the point where nothing else matters. It's their first love before they discover the opposite sex and even that attraction usually takes a back seat. When the sports bug bites, the symptoms include seemingly endless hours of planning, participating, and thinking about the object of their passion. This reality deserves a positive outlet.

Just imagine how much practice it took Michael Jordan to become the greatest basketball player on the planet. Malcolm Gladwell's book Outliers argues that 10,000 hours, roughly 10 years, are necessary to master a skill. Other experts found even that's not enough nor does it explain other factors that influence superior performance (Macnamara 2014). In other words, you can't teach 7 feet. Another issue to consider: What if you practiced a skill incorrectly? You will be great at doing it wrong. This is where club coaches can help.

What to Look for in a Club Team


Once the decision to play at the club level is made, the first thing a family should do is their homework. Research is the key to successfully finding a home for your child on the right travel team. Many times a club coach will recognize the natural ability in your son or daughter and actively recruit them. Flattering as this is, make sure to investigate the experiences of families and players that currently play for the coach. This can be done in a number of ways including talking to friends, acquaintances, and other coaches who have competed against the club team being considered. Authentic responses are what you need.


According to the San Francisco Chronicle elite volleyball clubs can cost upwards of $3,000 (not including tournament and travel fees: another three grand). Cost is obviously an important consideration. This price is not an average, so most likely you won't be faced with these kinds of numbers. Younger players will see a considerable lower cost, but that might also mean the additional burden of fundraising. Remember the financial planners mentioned earlier? Imagine if you invested the yearly sixty-three-hundred dollars cited above in a tax-free educational fund. Of course, this financial sense would add up to absolutely nothing to your son or daughter who just want to play the sport they love. Good luck with this part of the decision.


Travel time to and from practices that are at least twice a week can add up quick and cut into an already busy family schedule. So as they say in real estate location, location, location is everything. Some families selected for the best teams willingly drive 2 to 3 hours round trip and endure a two-hour practice. Using simple math, that doesn't leave a lot of time for social activities outside of sports let alone homework. Choose wisely.


Is the coach concerned only with developing the superstar player or does he work with all the kids to make sure they become the best they possibly can be? Check out their coaching philosophy, usually found on the team website, to make sure it addresses skill advancement for all players. Sports should also contribute to the whole person. Life skills like sportsmanship, integrity, commitment, and a whole host of other attributes must define the environment your child will belong to and teach him or her to be an individual that excels at the social graces. No coach is a saint, but they should strive to create an atmosphere of rigorous standards.

Playing Time

Is it better to be a big fish in a small pond? This is the tricky part. There are so may ability levels of club teams, so it is paramount to identify how much playing time a newcomer can expect. Game experience in pressure-packed situations is essential to the growth of a player. It can't be replicated in drills. Like precious metals, high performance comes from the fire of competition. Ensure that the caliber of the club team matches the ability of your athlete.

Team Chemistry

Time spent with teammates practicing, traveling, and playing often exceed the hours with friends. Team chemistry is vital. Games can be won or lost depending on how well a team works together. If they enjoy the company of each other, it's more likely they will help to cover any mistake made on the field. Team divas do nothing to assist in executing a game plan and can place blame on weaker players instead of admitting faults in their own play. Friendship can overcome all kinds of defects on the field. Find the right team and the proper circumstances to enable your son or daughter to achieve socially and athletically.

Wrap up

Never before has there been so many options afforded young athletes to develop their skills through club sports. The pay for play teams have become a powerful force to where college coaches use them as an exclusive avenue for recruiting. It's much easier to attend a few highly competitive club tournaments where the best-skilled athletes meet and play against each other. It's like watching an all-star game every time they go out to assess the suitability of a player for their team. They must choose wisely and so do you.

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